::sigh:: indeed. The fact that you've known anyone for so many years is very impressive. I think the oldest BFF I can still claim a connection to is a college friend whom I met in 1982.
Community depends on proximity to a very large extent, because spur of the moment activities and casual get-togethers and ad hoc helping out and borrowing a cup of sugar depend on proximity.
My online communities have become increasingly important to me for emotional sustenance as my so-called "real" community has scattered. They aren't the same as sitting around the kitchen table, but they aren't a bad substitute.
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Community depends on proximity to a very large extent, because spur of the moment activities and casual get-togethers and ad hoc helping out and borrowing a cup of sugar depend on proximity.
My online communities have become increasingly important to me for emotional sustenance as my so-called "real" community has scattered. They aren't the same as sitting around the kitchen table, but they aren't a bad substitute.