*high five* Screw all the people who think it's a "disorder" that you don't want to service and ego-pet them. This is a perfectly good way to be. The other way has a high "price" too, and that price is functioning for other people all the time. I completely disregard the blithering of the people who want only to benefit from that themselves. I am not a public utility, and neither are you. Rock on.