I never found you cold... but then I don't find many people "cold". :)
One of the main things I value in friends is a willingness to explore ideas and get out and -do- things. You do both, therefore I think you are an interesting person to have as a friend. As far as I'm concerned you are just right the way you are.
When I was younger I was the kind of person who hugged everyone. As I've gotten older I hug less. In fact, at this point I seldom hug anyone except my very, very close friends. In the last couple of years I've found that I actively don't like it when people hug me in that random fashion. I think that this reflects much better boundaries on my part.
As for not having met anyone during your life who wanted to marry you, Hmmm, have you not met that person, or did you never allow that person close enough to ask? I only say this because I've observed several people, including my dear Donald, who was quite literally incapable of -seeing- the people who -did- want to be close to him, even though they clearly existed at the time (I saw them...) None of which address the question of whether -you- were interested in any such person(s)!
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One of the main things I value in friends is a willingness to explore ideas and get out and -do- things. You do both, therefore I think you are an interesting person to have as a friend. As far as I'm concerned you are just right the way you are.
When I was younger I was the kind of person who hugged everyone. As I've gotten older I hug less. In fact, at this point I seldom hug anyone except my very, very close friends. In the last couple of years I've found that I actively don't like it when people hug me in that random fashion. I think that this reflects much better boundaries on my part.
As for not having met anyone during your life who wanted to marry you, Hmmm, have you not met that person, or did you never allow that person close enough to ask? I only say this because I've observed several people, including my dear Donald, who was quite literally incapable of -seeing- the people who -did- want to be close to him, even though they clearly existed at the time (I saw them...) None of which address the question of whether -you- were interested in any such person(s)!