Oh cool! It's a remarkable cultural phenomenon at this point--the novel, the show that skirts Chinese censorship against overtly queer stories, the Special Edition, the manhua, and of course the fandom that is proliferating content. I'll be here awhile.

I don't know how linguistically-oriented you are, but if you are, this article about the subtle levels of language used by Lan Wangji versus Wei Wuxian is absolutely fascinating.