The Ink-Pot and the Palette

Also, see if they have any vintage Emily Posts. The one I have (I think it's 1926) has really useful advice, not only for those who can still Keep Up Standards (the most elaborate tray breakfast ever given is four courses...) but Mrs. Three in One, who is not a gender-swapped Trinity but a woman who has no servants and therefore must be cook and maid as well as hostess. And there's a chapter for the girl who is SO POOR SHE CAN ONLY AFFORD THREE EVENING DRESSES and therefore must coordinate her accessories.